Online Safety Tips for Teens

Protecting Young Adults from Internet Predators

Jun 27, 2008 Stephanie Cox

Teens are the most victimized age group for internet sexual predators. Read on for tips on protecting your family from unwanted advances.

By the age of 14, 77% of teens have been contacted by a predator online. Predators don't come with warning signs, so it's important to teach teens how to be safe on the Web.

Twelve percent of teenage girls admitted to eventually meeting strangers they first met while online in person. Chat room strangers are implicated in nearly 20% of cases of missing teens aged 15-17 every year, according to FBI statistics.

One survey found that 90% of teens and young adults have gone online, and that half (49%) of those online plug in once a day or more. Three out of four young people (74%) have access at home, and nearly one in three (31%) has access from their own bedroom. (The Kaiser Family Foundation in consultation with International Communications Research, 2001)

Also see Internet Sexual Predators: Is Your Child At Risk? for common warning signs that a teen may be involved or at risk.

Internet Predator Ploys

Many sexual predators who use the internet to find their next victim repeat techniques. Inform your teens so that they are aware of this list of common ploys:

• The process commonly begins in a chat room and moves onto instant message, email, phone, and finally face-to-face.
• Predators will appear to share a common interest or side withthe teen in arguments with parents. Beware of strangers who try to be a sympathetic ear. They are probably just trying to gain trust to use it against the teen later.
• Many predators pretend to be teenagers of the opposite sex.
• Once caution barriers are broken down, gifts or photos might be sent.
• They to keep anything sexual “our little secret."
• The predator may act like he is a friend by calling and emailing to “check in.”

How To Protect Yourself from Predators

Post this list in a conspicuous place near the family computer and make sure to read it over with your teens first.

• Don't email strangers.
• Never give out personal information (real name, address, phone number, school you attend, information about friends or family, age, gender, birthday).
• Don't open attachments (there might be pornographic material).
• Never post personal photos.
• Don't meet with strangers without a parent or guardian present.
• Don't accept gifts from strangers online.
• Talk to your parents about your online safety.

Remember, it is illegal for anyone to:

• Entice or coerce a minor to engage in sexually explicit conduct.
• Import or transport obscenity.
• Advertise or distribute child pornography.
• Depict minors engaged in sexually explicit conduct.
• Advertise or promote sexually explicit conduct by giving the impression that minors are engaged in sexually explicit conduct.

If anyone online does any of these things, report it immediately to the authorities.

Internet Safety Tips For Younger Kids

It's always a good idea to instill safe habits at a younger age. Discuss these tips with your pre-teens:

• Tell your parents about the websites you are visiting.
• Do not give out personal information about yourself or family members, including your last name, address, phone number, age, gender, birthday, or the location of your school.
• Stop communicating with someone who asks for personal information or is sexually aggressive.
• Do not give out your passwords, screen name or user ID.
• Tell an adult if any information you receive, or an online encounter, makes you feel uncomfortable.
• Ask your parent's permission before meeting someone online in person. If your parents approve, meet in a public place and bring your parent.
• Do not send anyone your picture without your parent’s permission.
• Set up rules for online usage with your parents.
• Ask your parent's permission before downloading or installing software, or before bypassing any filters.
• Use email filters.

Report Cybercrime

If your child is communicating with someone suspicious online or receiving sexually explicit information, call:

• The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children 800.843.5678
• CyberTipline 800.843.5678

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Apr 25, 2009 2:40 PM

Guest :

Now i know, how these internet predators work, so for me as an 18 year old person, i better make sure i dnt give out personal information that i should not give. So i better be careful, and i'm glad that there's a site like this that will help.

Jan 15, 2010 5:20 AM

Guest :

It's interesting to see that only one person has commented on such a serious issue. Me personally, knew not to do things like this because of past experiences. It's a very scary thing to know that there is some strange man coming across the country to find you, but it's even scarier when you didn't know the strange man was o his way, and just shows up at the door.I was just thankful that my dad was home to answer the door, and take care it. The only thing i can say about this is be careful and be smart about meeting new"friends" odds are they are not looking for a new friend they are look for some to hurt. And this experience was not because i was chatting with him online. this was because of a really close friend i was going to school with at the time, and she just gave my information out. This situation was unavoidable and i couldn't change it. So please don't use you real name or let your friends use any of your information. It can be very dangerous on your half.

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